Friends….dun worry…I not facing those emo things again…just a sudden feel of writing since I saw many things recently and read an article in Juice magazine….
There are many theories that we hear before about love, dun we?
Well, there are several theories as at below that maybe, just maybe, that we always hear people around us like to say:
(a) love is like a ghost, many ppl tok about it but yet never really seen or experience it themselves
(b) love doesn’t mean holding on to the person but letting the person go coz if the person is meant to be yours that person will be yours
(c) love doesn’t mean owning the person and keeping the person by your side, but making sure that the person is happy, coz that is the most important thing
(d) love is about giving and sacrificing
well….i believe we have heard more than the above I had mentioned…and who can deny that love is something that we desire in our entire life….
In the article I was reading was about finding the other one in clubbing places….how steady and trustworthy can a person be when u met him or her in a clubbing place…
I have to admit that there are still a minority group of ppl who can still get married and lived happily ever after even though they have met in clubbing places..
But does it mean that all of us are so lucky to meet the one in clubbing places? I dun think so…I guess…some of us are nodding their heads concurring to wat I just said…haha…
The main point I would want to say is that…the one will come when the time is right…u dun have to find nor do u sit there and just plainly wait…but just carry on your life as usual…enjoy every single moment…experiencing all kind of things while that person suddenly POPPED up in your life….
I remember I read this chain email that says…everyone will have their designated half…and the story was about the story from the bible on Eve was created from a rib that God took out from Adam….therefore…I can only say…the other half has been made and it is only till the right time then u will meet that person….
I have this girlfriend who has this tendency of probing the past of the boyfriend…I mean….who are not curious of the past of that someone u are totally head over heels for…but to be frank…does the past really matters….wat matter most is to treasure the present and look forward to the future….ur the other half may tell you about the past…but let him or her take his or her time to tell you everything….dun probe…coz…if they are willing to let u noe…they
will let u noe….
If u really love the person… accept the past…accept the person… accept everything of the person….because love should be
unconditional….
Leading to the time factor…I remembered I had this conversation with my girlfriends on the ppl that had appeared last time and now…then I realized…every single person that appear in our life happen for a reason… I can’t quote any specific example…why dun whoever is reading this….think back….when some ppl come to ur life and left…did u change…did u learn…did u realize…many ppl just pass by us…whereas some ppl left footprints in our life…and tat makes a very big difference…even though they mean something to us…and we can’t change that and we shouldn’t change that….
So I believe I have come to the conclusion that we
shouldn’t dwell on the past but treasure the present and look forward to the future…
